aww, why Les?

Anyway, I'm single. and fab. lols.

I used to be sooo bent on having a bf, but now I realized I really do not want one. Not right now. Not in the near future. Well, not for all the wrong reasons anyway.

I would like to have a bf not because I'm just plain lonely or I'm sick and tired of being single, I would like a bf because I actually love the guy.

Then again, I'm still wondering what the point of the 'bfgf' label is. IMO, it's just another way of declaring that you own him and he owns you. But doesn't that defeat the whole purpose of love which is suppose to be selfless and unconditional?

I am not trying to justify the so-called 'fear of commitment'. And fyi, I'm not a commitment-phobe. It's just that I really do not get why anyone would have to brand their relationship when the important thing is not really the term but the relationship itself. The problem with label is, once it's there, it defines the companionship. It builds ideals and expectations.

I do not want any labels to hinder my growth with another person that I love.

Sheesh. Don't mind me. I just have way too many issues in life. Haha.

Les, you are totally not missing out just because you're not part of a 'bfgf' relationship. Anyway, you have us tsong, so be strong. You know that I'm just around, right? Hilahin kita sa Mogwai at dun ka mag-emo, wag dito. Hehe.

Oh, and I sooo cannot wait for you to meet Choi. You're going to like him dude. ^_^

Ehehe. Sorry for the long post everyone. Si Lester kse eh...lols.

single all the way..

still SINGLE.. hopefully someday maging Happily Taken na..^
Taken lang name ko here, may mga double meaning din.. uhm, taken for granted..?^

depende sa situwasyon ...   :

good answer from the master himself !!!

Totally Taken and Proudly Domesticated (parang pusa lang noh, haha)

Living in...with three other fab individuals and happily making a home out of what used to be a simple house 

SINGLE na ulet