If You Love Someone. ?


If you love someone, ask them for nothing.

Don't hold them back from their destiny.

Don't keep them from going off in search of their own answers.

Don't ask them for commitment.
You will know commitment is real when it is something given willingly and not as something obligatory.

Don't ask them for promises.

If you are patient, if you have faith, you will know in your heart when the right time for promises has come.

And when that time arrives,
then you will see that you have both lost nothing by setting each other free,
and have instead gained a richer, fuller life,
a wealth of experiences,
and a stronger certainty of your desires.

But should they not return to you,
then life hasn't cheated you because no promises were broken.
Your bitterness will not last long,
and you will feel thankful and blessed that at the very least,
this beautiful soul has colored your life,
that knowing them has already made life infinitely more meaningful.

By setting a person free,
you run a risk of them not returning.
But always remember that you found them beautiful precisely because they were free.
People are like sunlight. You can feel their warmth, and their glow,
but you can't hold them in your hand and keep them with you forever.

People CHOOSE to stay.

But a choice is made more meaningful when it is made despite so many other options.

Love has no restrictions and it is through mistakes that sometimes we see the right answer.

Because if you love someone,
you ask them for nothing
and they will come back to you.

commitment is something that should not be forced out of a person... it just happens... it comes at the right time...

as for promises... most of them are meant to be broken anyway so what's the use in promising something that you won't eventually be able to give?

I have learned that it is better to live life everyday as it comes... if you are with someone, enjoy every moment of it but leave something for yourself so that when time comes that he or she leaves... you can still pick yourself up and go on living.

If you love someone, you must learn to set it free.... if it returns then that is true love... hehehe... lumang luma na ito... ngak ngak ngak ngak... hehehe

Kapag di na ko mahalaga sa isang tao… kusa akong lumalayo… kapag naramdaman mo na wala na ko sa paligid mo, hindi yun dahil hindi na kita mahal… naramdaman ko lang na di mo na ako kailangan…  alexandriah of CP Fun Fearless Forum

i care

I would rather have had
One breath of her hair,
One kiss from her mouth,
One touch of her hand,
Than an eternity without it.

by

City of Angels

If you love someone.... kapamilya man, kaibigan o kai-bigan....

Sabihin mo ang gusto mong sabihin sa kanya..

Gawin mo ang mga bagay na gusto mong gawin para sa kanya..

Ipadama mo ang pagmamahal at pagpapahalaga sa kanya...


Huwag kang mag aksaya ng ORAS...

sa galit, inis, pagkakaiba, di pagkakaunawaan at kung anu-ano pang kaletsehan...


Hindi mahalaga ang pride at ego mo, ang mahalaga ang KALIGAYAHAN mo.


Ano bang gusto mo ang maging MASAYA o ang manalo sa pakikipagmatigasan?


Mas mabuting sinabi mo ang lahat at ginawa mo ang lahat para sa taong mahal mo.... kahit hindi man niya ito MASUKLIAN ng pagmamahal at pagpapahalaga.....

Ang mahalaga, walang kang pagsisisihang sa huli na hindi mo nagawa at nasabi...

Hindi mo sasabihing, "Sana nasabi ko sa kanya, sana naipadama ko na mahalaga siya..."


at sana huwag na ring umabot sa puntong, kahit gusto mong lapitan ang taong minahal mo at ipakitang pinahalagahan mo siya.... eh, hindi mo na magawa kasiwala ka nang maramdaman para sa kanya