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Living together before Marriage, are you in favor of this?

« on: April 22, 2009, 05:14:58 PM »

for me marriage first.. because I believe that Marriage is sacred... and if you really love the person you don't have a trial and error relationship...


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Re: Living together before Marriage, are you in favor of this?

« Reply #1 on: April 22, 2009, 06:04:20 PM »

Quote from: tsubamei_kawaii on April 22, 2009, 05:14:58 PM

for me marriage first.. because I believe that Marriage is sacred... and if you really love the person you don't have a trial and error relationship...

Ok yan, panindigan mo... nyahahaha!

Pero panahong ito, ang ginagawa ng magkasintahang nagliliving together halos wala na namang pinagka-iba sa hindi nagliliving together hahaha.. di ba?

ang lupeeeeet ng macooleeeeet!

Wag seryosohin nakamamatay!


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Re: Living together before Marriage, are you in favor of this?

« Reply #2 on: April 22, 2009, 09:13:30 PM »

kailangan mo ba ikasal sa kapatid mo?? sa yaya mo?? sa driver nyo??

you are living in together with them all your life...

with a relative, non-relative... minsan friends... minsan weirdong roommate or dorm mate...

minsan meron barkada hideout - where you are living together with everyone...

minsan mag-isa..

marriage=sacred? to whom? why? is it relevant to daily living? kung ang mga ninuno natin nung panahon ng dinosaurs e hindi kinakasal... so bunga tayo ng pagkakasala??

hmmmm...

kung walang trial and error bakit may divorce?
bakit nga ba walang expiry ang marriage contract - as compared to most contracts...

hmmm...


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Re: Living together before Marriage, are you in favor of this?

« Reply #3 on: April 22, 2009, 09:20:51 PM »

Quote from: Rodel on April 22, 2009, 06:04:20 PM

Quote from: tsubamei_kawaii on April 22, 2009, 05:14:58 PM

for me marriage first.. because I believe that Marriage is sacred... and if you really love the person you don't have a trial and error relationship...

yup, napanindigan ko na po.. kasi kasal na po ako eh.. short term nga lang po ang ligawan na nangyari eh, kasi di na ako pinakawalan ng hubby ko.. Wink


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Re: Living together before Marriage, are you in favor of this?

« Reply #4 on: April 22, 2009, 09:46:48 PM »

marriage=sacred? to whom? why? is it relevant to daily living? kung ang mga ninuno natin nung panahon ng dinosaurs e hindi kinakasal... so bunga tayo ng pagkakasala??

bakit kinasal ka sir jc.. *wink*

dinosaur era, wala pa pong utos ang diyos noon eh B.C. pa po yun eh.. hehehe

hmmmm...

kung walang trial and error bakit may divorce?
bakit nga ba walang expiry ang marriage contract - as compared to most contracts...

hmmm...

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yun na nga eh.. after you swear/pledge to each other in front of the altar or even a civil marriage that you will love each other till death do you part then after a year or two or even 10 years magddivorce Y? because you fall out of love.. thats not enough reason kasi nung andun ka sa time na yung feeling na masaya ka or inlove ok na ok ka, and one thing na nakakasira ng isang marriage is when you start find a reason bakit nagkakaganun ang relationship mo.. besides its not just a simple paper na pinirmahan at ni submit sa NSO for legality.. what is impt is you pledged to love that person and accepted whatever she/he is and it has a blessing from our god...

adik... adik... adik...

pati ako nagagaya na sa ka adikan... hehehe!


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Re: Living together before Marriage, are you in favor of this?

« Reply #5 on: April 22, 2009, 09:59:03 PM »

Quote from: tsubamei_kawaii on April 22, 2009, 09:20:51 PM

Quote from: Rodel on April 22, 2009, 06:04:20 PM

Quote from: tsubamei_kawaii on April 22, 2009, 05:14:58 PM

for me marriage first.. because I believe that Marriage is sacred... and if you really love the person you don't have a trial and error relationship...

yup, napanindigan ko na po.. kasi kasal na po ako eh.. short term nga lang po ang ligawan na nangyari eh, kasi di na ako pinakawalan ng hubby ko.. Wink

Wow! buti pa yang HUbby mo!

Alagaan mo relasyon nio hahaha! God bless!


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Re: Living together before Marriage, are you in favor of this?

« Reply #6 on: April 22, 2009, 10:14:56 PM »

Quote from: tsubamei_kawaii on April 22, 2009, 09:46:48 PM

marriage=sacred? to whom? why? is it relevant to daily living? kung ang mga ninuno natin nung panahon ng dinosaurs e hindi kinakasal... so bunga tayo ng pagkakasala??

bakit kinasal ka sir jc.. *wink*

dinosaur era, wala pa pong utos ang diyos noon eh B.C. pa po yun eh.. hehehe

hmmmm...

kung walang trial and error bakit may divorce?
bakit nga ba walang expiry ang marriage contract - as compared to most contracts...

hmmm...

yun na nga eh.. after you swear/pledge to each other in front of the altar or even a civil marriage that you will love each other till death do you part then after a year or two or even 10 years magddivorce Y? because you fall out of love.. thats not enough reason kasi nung andun ka sa time na yung feeling na masaya ka or inlove ok na ok ka, and one thing na nakakasira ng isang marriage is when you start find a reason bakit nagkakaganun ang relationship mo.. besides its not just a simple paper na pinirmahan at ni submit sa NSO for legality.. what is impt is you pledged to love that person and accepted whatever she/he is and it has a blessing from our god...

adik... adik... adik...

pati ako nagagaya na sa ka adikan... hehehe!

Ouch! Magpreno ka namn kapatid nyahahahaha!


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Re: Living together before Marriage, are you in favor of this?

« Reply #7 on: April 23, 2009, 02:26:51 AM »

Quote from: JC on April 22, 2009, 09:13:30 PM

san mo napupulot yang mga pilosopiyang yan?


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Re: Living together before Marriage, are you in favor of this?

« Reply #8 on: April 23, 2009, 04:50:43 PM »

ingit ka lang kasi hindi ikaw ang nakaisip!
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Re: Living together before Marriage, are you in favor of this?

« Reply #9 on: April 23, 2009, 06:12:31 PM »

kung walang expiration yung marriage cert eh bakit sa aken nag expire nung 2002?


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« Reply #10 on: April 23, 2009, 07:22:44 PM »

hahaha...

oo nga noh...
nandito pala si jhed...

go jhed!


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Re: Living together before Marriage, are you in favor of this?

« Reply #11 on: April 24, 2009, 06:47:32 AM »

i commend those people who stay married for a long time, those who stick to the "till death do us part" vow but i don't judge those who choose to live together without getting married...

maybe they just think that it is more practical not to get married so that when time comes that they both decide that they are not really meant for each other, it would be easy to get out of the relationship... there won't be a need to file for a dissolution of marriage (which takes so much time and money)...

besides marriage is not a security that you will both love each other till death... you can share a lasting relationship even without it.

NOTE: i'm not trying to convince those who are not yet married that this is the way to go... do what you think is best for your relationship and do what ever makes you happy.